There are many females who have no issues getting pregnant. There are some who just simply can't do it. Even with meds, shots, in vitro. It just doesn't work for them at all. Some people turn to adoption. Others turn to surrogate moms. This is when they find a woman who will carry a baby for them but the baby will still be genetically theirs. If you've ever been pregnant you know it's very hard to even think of not being able to keep that baby you have been carrying for 40 weeks. At this moment I don't feel the need to have another child of my own. Does't mean I don't want more but at this moment no. The 2 I have bring plenty of joy and work into my life. For a while when I thought I was going to be a stay at home mom this year for a bit I looked up the requirements for being a surrogate mom. There are lots of different things you must do and requirements you must meet but if I had the time and patience for it I think I would give it a shot. This is coming from a person who would adopt a child if she could later on in the future. I mean after all genetically the child would not be mine but I would have to keep it safe and healthy for 40 weeks while it's baking in the womb. I understand the importance of a couple wanting a child that is genetically theirs. Things like that matter if the child is ever Ill. Also when your in a loving marriage you want to see what beautiful genetic mix you can both create. Plus this would bring ultimate joy to a couples life. If a couple can afford surrogacy then they will be able to provide the child a good life because the whole process is pricey. You really can't put a price tag on ultimate happiness and joy. Just because these couples can't physical have a child doesn't mean they won't be awesome parents. If anything the whole process with make the appreciate the child that much more. To anyone who has ever been a surrogate mom Yay for you. Like everything it has it's good and bad. I think though if you go into the process with the knowledge of what's to come and the willingness to help another human you will have a good happy out come.
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